HOW TO MAKE A CHILD OBEDIENT

 

HOW TO MAKE A CHILD OBEDIENT

Generate a blissful Accord

Nurturing and growing children always need guidance for a better future and leading a successful

life. The key role to be played by specially first by their parents and secondly by teachers has an

importance in many dimensions. There are certain ways that are necessary to be learned from

experts by parents and teachers too because training a child is like laying a foundation stone of a

building. If the foundation is not laid properly the building may fell with a small wind blow. So

it is necessary to learn about the methods to train according to the need of time.

Here I am going to discuss some of key points that should be known by each parent and teacher

before getting involved in nurturing or bringing up a child, cultivate the nature and habit of

obedience that is jubilant and effective.

1. Flawless Expectations:

First of all it is to made clear our goals that what is to be achieved. We have to start with proper structure

 of points to be followed and a with a clear destination and expectation. Use positive and decent language

to order the rules. Be kind while involved in nurturing and don’t be rude if mistakes occur either from

 both sides. Always set a positive behavior and children get to know the importance of positive tone.

2. Being an Example:

Children are the good observers and their absorption power is very high. What they see, they try to feel

and experience it. Therefore the way you behave, act or perform in front of them, they will observe and

behave in the same way. Whatever you want them to say you have to say it first. For example if you want

them to say “thank you” or “you are welcome” , you have to say it first consistently because it is proven

that actions speaks louder than words.

3. Applaud and Inspiration:

Every child gets motivated when their small successes are acknowledged and praised. When the child

listen to you, understand something, or follows your instructions, do praise them with simple words like

Well done, good job, high-five etc, can work wonder. The child gets an immense pleasure and gets

motivated to perform better next time.

4. Strategic Uniformity:

Children move toward success when there is a uniformity in training. The blossom is connected with

consistency in routine guidance with proper rules and expectations. By rules doesn’t means to be rigid,

it means to be steadfast. When children get to know they are expected, they start being more responsible

cooperative and do their best to perform well.

5. Solution to mistakes:

Children always make mistakes. Whatever the standard or level of the mistake, apply the solution method

calmly and consistently. The method should be logical and according to age of the child. If something is

broken or thrown, take it away calmly for some time. Explain the situation and ask them to be careful and

encourage the child to make wise choice next time.

6. Effective Communication:

When the child is making any type of communication, listen actively to your child’s concerns and his

feelings. When they are acknowledged and heard, they cooperate more interestingly. Use decent language

when instructions are given. The language and tone should be clear to them what is asked from them.

Prohibit yourself from being aggressive when a mistake is repeated. Repeat your correction methods

calmly and try to achieve your goal.

7. Enjoy the activity:

The process of solution of mistakes or disobedience should not be a dull or a strict method. It must be full

of fun and activity based. Convert your task in to games or challenging hurdles. For example let’s give the

task who will complete the given work first and then generate a reward method like giving rewards

according to categories, first to the one who is completing the task in first position and so on. In this

way make the obedience encouraging, enjoyable, with positive behavior.

8. Teaching problem solving strategies:

While training teach the student or child to develop and nourish his critical thinking and how to tackle

problems faced and getting the best solution for them. Children must be encouraged to think with their

own abilities and to solve with their own actions. This procedure has a greater impact as it empowers the

children make decisions of their own and make good choices in their future.

9. Nurture liberation:

Giving individual tasks according to their ages prepares students to tackle the problems, makes them

 responsible. This creates a sense of responsibilities and are more expected to behave in right manner.

This also build up their confidence and strengthens their positive actions.

10. Give Absolute Love:

Love is the main factor that is to be given to child unconditionally. Do not limit your love to just their

good behavior but so let them feel that your love for them has no boundaries. This creates a harmony and

child feel protected and secure. The child starts to learn and grow.

Conclusion

Nurturing a child is one of the difficult tasks for parents and teachers for which self-training is a must.

Creating and growing self-confidence, foster positive relation, prepare them for clear expectations and

guide them with love and harmony are the major needs of a growing child. Generating a support in terms

of environment and focusing on positive behavior, a child can be prepare with obedience in a way that is

full of joy and good for both parents and child. In this way a child will grow his character and his career

ethically and morally.

 I which you all readers a good luck for your parenting and teaching.